Annie~Joy writes: Did She Marry Her Enemy? Be Inspired!

One cloudy evening, I was sitting in front of my father's house and I saw one of our neighbor sitting in front of the house helpless. I mastered the courage and approached her if she can share what could be the problem. She began by saying: " Anna, am I not a nice woman. I didn't have the privilege to enjoy education because of financial issues. I just have to forget about school and find something doing with my life with the thoughts that, I will get a man who can take good care of me.

Hmmm, I first met a man who promised marriage and in the cause of it, I got pregnant and gave birth to my first born. The gentleman left without fulfilling his promise. Life was still going on and I knew as a beautiful woman, I will definitely get another man which came to pass. I met this man who married me and the same incident has happened. I had a child with him before the marriage. He doesn't allow me in his house but he has rather rented an apartment for me and my children which he comes over anytime he feels like coming to spend the night.

I have given him all the necessary explanation to set up a petty trade for me which will keep me going and also get rid of the idea of ‘I am a lazy woman’ or something, yet he seems not to hear me. Anna, I feel like quitting this marriage and all that but my children, because of them I am still living in this torture. At that moment, I feel so down...so down.” This was something out of my control but I did my best to motivate her that things will get better. This is reality I am writing to you about. I want to ask, what lesson have you picked out of this? This was never her wish but it looks like she is living in it.
 

Young lady who is now growing up in life, I want to uncover something to you. Plan your life well. Trust me, she is very beautiful yet her beauty, let me say didn't speak that much for her. There is no way you will wish for anything unpleasant to happen to you. Therefore, plan your life well. A noble gentleman who is now growing in life, know how to accept responsibilities and duties and don't rule with the authoritative style of ruling. Don't be the reason why someone will go to bed in tears and wake up with fear.

In one of my articles, I wrote about predictions in life is something very easy and simple. That's how come you see a little child predicting higher, such as; when I grow up, I want to be a Doctor, a lawyer and the rest. Because saying is something simple. I have seen someone whom everyone saw greatness in him but his life ended up in a different way.

Imaginations and predictions are the simplest activities one can carry but how to evaluate it becomes the problem. My title says: "DID SHE MARRY HER ENEMY?" which is a no. There is no way a human being will marry his or her enemy while he or she knows it's about spending a life time together but lack of planning, driving so hard for what she needed has resulted to this.

We listen to stories like this and share so that you won’t be a victim to that. She ended with an advice, " Anna, take your education serious and plan well. I don't wish you what I am going through. Don't follow your beauty because each day I see my beauty fading away. Value who you are and work so hard to make you and trust me noble people will come your way". When she finished with the advice, I asked her if I can share this with my friends. In fact, she said how I wish I can mount big platform to advice young ladies.

I actually have her permission to share with you. I have shared with you someone's biggest challenge. Pick up what you need to have and build on it. We predict for the best that's everyone's dream but if you predict and you don't work for it. You will say “LIFE WASN'T FAIR TO ME”.

#Getinspired #Getmotivated #Lifekeepcomingback

Writer: Annie~Joy

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